9:22 PM

According to Oxford English Dictionary, optimism means having "hopefulness and confidence about the future or successful outcome of something; a tendency to take a favourable or hopeful view.'

Life doesn't always seem to go our way. We will fall and get up again when you least expect it. The ups and downs that we're going through are the things that we learn in life. Life is never easy. There are hopes and dreams that could not be reached. There are problems that cannot be solved. There are situations happening which we don't expect or want to happen. What we can do is to think slowly. Never let our emotional breakdown get to us. We must face this life with full of patience. Thinking positive is also a way to face this challenging life. Bare in mind that everything happens for a reason.

The challenges that seem to happen around me right now are mostly about love. Well, specifically it's not me who is experiencing it but the people around me. Some are mature enough to handle it while some are still not strong enough to handle the heartbreak. I understand. I myself went through the same thing few years back. I was not mature enough to handle the situation and kept on hurting myself because I didn't want to let him go. But sometimes we have to make the decision based on the situation... We can't always follow what our heart tells us to do. Yes, break ups are painful but when you rethink it over, it is the best decision that you could make after being with someone who have had always hurt you. It's all about staying positive. When your partner left you for some reason, it might hurt you but you have to accept it and move on. Stay positive by thinking 'There are others out there who are willing to be in your heart'. Its okay to cry moments after breaking up. But by thinking positive, we will feel a bit relieved.

When we go through these experiences...we'll learn something and we'll know what to do if the same thing happens again. We just have to think on how to handle it and also to think positive. Never blame others because of what had happened to you. We just have to stay strong.

Let's be optimistic about life okay? :)

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